Wicca Natural Magic Kit: The Sun, The Moon, and The Elements, Elemental Magic, Moon Magic, and Wheel of the Year Magic - Lisa Chamberlain 2018
Transforming Through Banishing Old Habits
This spell enacts transformative magic through the physical burning of the representation of what you want to be rid of in your life—whether this is a physical habit or a way of thinking that you want to release.
1 small black candle
1 small piece of paper
1 Fire-proof dish (or sink)
Light the candle. On the paper, either write or draw a symbol of what you are banishing. As you do so, imagine your life without this negative habit, and visualize the joy you will feel when it’s gone. When you’re ready, say, “I release this habit of _________, and welcome in the positive energy created by its absence.” Light the paper with the candle and let it burn out in the fire-proof dish, or in the sink, if necessary. (As with anything fire-related, be very careful with this step!) Leave the candle to burn out on its own in a safe place.
This can be used to attract love into your life if you’re single, or rejuvenate an existing relationship. However, if you struggle with self-love, your best bet is to start there, as you need it to sustain lasting love with someone else. Be very careful not to aim your energy at a specific person in a manipulative way, as this can backfire. In your visualization, you don’t concentrate on controlling the feelings of another—instead, concentrate on how you want to feel.
3 pink candles
1 red candle
Rub ginger oil into the red candle. Place the pink candles on the altar in a triangle, with one to the North, one to the East, and one to the West. Place the red candle in the center of the triangle. Light the pink candles, then hold the rose quartz in both hands with your eyes closed.
Visualize the feeling of being incredibly, unconditionally loved, allowing the feeling to grow as you strengthen your focus. When you’re ready, open your eyes, and place the rose quartz just above the North pink candle. State your intention, and light the red candle, visualizing your personal power streaming through the flame and up into the Universe.